1. I'm not the most observant person [unless I take the time to analyze something]
(which leads to)
2. I don't connect the not so obvious dots....so please don't assume I do.
Ex: It's early in the morning and my phone rings with an unknown number. I picked up and it was my friend's mom looking for him. I explain that I don't know where he is. Minutes later friend calls yelling at me about talking to his mom. Finally, friend #2 tells me that friend #1 is mad at me because I talked to his mom when he's avoiding her and not talking to her...therefore I'm betraying him (or something).
-_____---. You expect to connect the dots...
So, please...COMMUNICATE what you're feeling and/or any necessary information. Don't blow up in my face and blame me.